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I found this short clip on Aaron Alexander’s channel in October 2026. It went online on 14 March 2026. Darryl Anka is the man who channels Bashar. Here he does not channel. He speaks as himself and tells what Bashar teaches. The question is simple: monogamy or polyamory? The answer surprised me. In Bashar’s society, people do not decide the form of a relationship in advance. A bond that lasts a lifetime is something you see only when you look back. This made me think of how the Church fixed the form of love by law.
Key points
- Darryl Anka speaks as himself in this clip, not in a channeling session.
- He says Bashar’s people do not impose a structure on any relationship.
- He says a lifelong bond is a “retrospective understanding”, seen only in hindsight.
- He says the purpose of a relationship is to help each partner grow.
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They do not impose on any relationship that happens in their society. They do not impose a societal structure on what that relationship is supposed to be.
Darryl Anka on Bashar's teaching, Monogamy vs Polyamory? Bashar's Unexpected Answer
This is the core of the answer. No form is set before the relationship starts. Watch at 0:35
But it's a retrospective understanding. They never assume that it has to be that way when it's happening.
Darryl Anka on Bashar's teaching, Monogamy vs Polyamory? Bashar's Unexpected Answer
A lifelong bond can happen. But nobody plans it as a rule. Watch at 1:41
Video by Aaron Alexander. Watch on YouTube.